If you were a 43-year-old woman pursuing a man 20 years older, not many people would bat an eye.
So, by pursuing older women you are helping to reverse dumb, sexist double standards. An older woman with a younger man = a fetish object, and he must be a pervert.)Way to dismantle the patriarchy with your penis, Gray Area! The word “fetish” is often misused, so I’m not sure if you mean it in the sense of reducing all silver foxes to objects solely for your sexual gratification (i.e.
Of course, Madonna was just getting started at the time and didn’t she break some barriers and basically, invent the ‘Cougar’? Back to in praise of older women—with younger men…we recently went to see “I’ll See You In My Dreams” starring Blythe Danner. She plays a widowed woman in her early 70’s (I’m guessing her age), who is very beautiful, independent and not interested in re-marrying.
There is an underlying sadness within her though that’s at the heart of the film.
After all, most men over 60 don’t look like George Clooney, just like most of us don’t look like Jane Seymour.
Is it really realistic to believe that we will find a 65-year old man that dresses well, is financially independent and who loves spending time at the gym?
It’s a long, long, way from May to December – and I am an expert.(Jemal Countess / Getty Images) Dear Anna: I have a fetish for much older women—women in their 60s & 70s, specifically. How do I approach these women to make my fantasy come true? May to December relationships are hardly uncommon (especially between older men and younger women), and nothing to slap a “pervert” label on.In fact, a 2008 study by researchers from the University of Gothenburg and the University of Oxford found that the majority of women older than 60 were looking for younger men.If we really want these things, maybe it’s time for us to take a page from their book and turn the dial on our dating profile back a decade.Beyond physical characteristics, there is another reason that women in their 60s might want to consider looking for a younger man.
Once the engine had started, however, he resembled some ghastly resurrected creature in a Hammer film and attempted to winch himself on to me using the rear seatbelt.