It is normal to grieve the loss of the illicit relationship even if repairing the marriage is decidedly the desired outcome. Most betrayed spouses have many questions about what happened and the meaning the affair had to the unfaithful spouse.As difficult as it might be, it is imperative to answer these questions openly and honestly.I watched the spiritual war over his soul, and I watched him repent, surrendering himself fully to God.
And three, when you feel like you can communicate clearly—and address the big question, why did this affair happen to ?
I suddenly found myself a single parent with three heartbroken adult children and two distraught teenagers.
Finally, after seven months of what felt like hell on earth, Mark stopped fighting with God.
The typical affair used to start in the office and move to a seedy motel room, but the vast reach of the Internet has brought infidelity into many couples’ homes over the past decade.
The growth in steamy chat room conversations and cybersex also has triggered a rethinking of the meaning of infidelity.
“With the Internet, we’re moving away from just physical ideas about infidelity and acknowledging emotional infidelity.” While there is no universally accepted definition, an Internet affair frequently involves intimate chat sessions and sexually stimulating conversation or cybersex, which may include filming mutual masturbation with a Web camera.