Are you looking forward to someone who came out hurt from a previous relationship?
Sometimes you feel it's a ‘Yes' but at times you are completely ignored as if he or she is not interested in you at all.
Therefore not fully available to give you what you need.
If they are a person of integrity and tend to do the right thing by others, then they are not available for other relationships—they are not available for a relationship with you and they know that.
If such is the case then it's time that you first understand what he or she is going through after being badly hurt in a relationship.
In other words, you should try to understand what his or her current mental state is.
Actress Mindy Kaling attends the 2017 Vanity Fair Oscar Party hosted by Graydon Carter at Wallis Annenberg Center for the Performing Arts on February 26, 2017 in Beverly Hills, California.