Do not assume there is something wrong with you or your profile.
Below is a list of reasons I know occur simply from talking to the girls I dated or from talking to friends.
Society tells them they’re beautiful and they’re mad at Tinder and Ok Cupid for not providing better prospects. I’m the average-looking sidekick, “the one who online dates,” and it’s my fault they aren’t having a better time.“You have no idea what it’s like to be called beautiful all the time,” a good friend once remarked.
My best friend, who looks like the racially ambiguous lovechild of Brad Pitt and Pocahontas, waves her phone at me in righteous indignation. Several of my “classically attractive” friends are pissed.
Write to more Indian men and your response rate should go up by 15%.I’m not saying you’re unattractive – I have no idea what you look like – but if you were expecting men to be knocking down your door, take a look at the most attractive women in New York City between the ages of 25-35. Not to only have one source, but Ok Cupid also did a post on race.I think you’ll see why you’re not getting as much attention. And what they observed is that yes, in fact, the percentage response that Indian women get from white men is less than they’ll get from men of all other races.Jane Austen would be aghast at the behavior of her gender in the 21st century! Could you be confusing her with Lady Catherine de Bourgh, who allows no room for context when she issues directives?The Miss Austen that Miss Manners knows is uncannily alert to the subtleties in any social situation.
There is a good chance you will want to be hard on yourself when after five or ten attempts at contacting people you’ve had no responses.