I couldn’t believe that these women went out of their way to study in the medicine library (the other end of campus) for the blind chance that, perhaps, a med student might take notice of them. The average debt of a med school graduate is about 160,000 USD, which normally takes up to 30 years to pay off and consequentially amounts to around 400,000 USD of total debt with accrued interest added in. While doctors start off with 6 figures right off the bat, they also have 6 figures of debt under their belt.
So no, dating a doctor does not equal abundant wealth.I know many other nurses that also married young docs, only to have the marriage fail. That sentence strikes me as rather bizarre--it seems to be alluding to a causal link between academics and being "emotionally immature," as you put it. he will be moving right after he finishes his residency. We like each other, but I feel like giving up also at times. The relationship never went anywhere but was always happy to help and he was very grateful. A stereotype I hope will be destroyed someday, but not today. If you can put yourself in his shoes, you would understand that, first of all, he is barraged by hungry patients all wanting answers and a piece of him.I'm quite willing to take you at your word, but my guess is that academia had nothing to do with your ex being immature. right now he isnt looking for a commitment relationship. im glad i know his plan before i begin to fall in love with would be harder for me if im in love with someone and have to say goodbye.after today date, i had no intention to become his has tried to set up a date once a wk but i dont think i would stay with him that long since im not in his future plan. It's tough to date a med student let alone a resident. There are times where u will go to events, parties And even spending holidays without him. There were times I asked him if he was seeing someone else and both times he answered no. Secondly, if he's still in residency, he has to prevail and give it his all.If I accompanied him in these activities, we got to spend time together.At times, because my schedule could not always accommodate his changing hours and sparse availability, I wouldn’t see him for a couple of weeks or more.
Shell shocked was the best way to describe how it felt when the relationship only lasted under a year.