Suggest other things to do with someone rather than have sex.It may seem silly, but many times sex comes up as an option because teens are bored and have nothing else to do or think about. If they stay busy enough, they’ll probably end up having to say no less. If your teen just brushes off the issue without making their opinions clear, they will face the same problem over and over again. While they may want to give reasons, but they shouldn’t have to. Even if your child has already had sex, don’t let up on teaching them to say no.
Thirty-seven states require coverage of abstinence, compared to the 18 that require information on contraception, according to the Guttmacher Institute.
Very few school boards, superintendents, and principals welcome the prospect of dealing with issues around sex education, often an invitation to controversy and a divided community.
If three Harvard University researchers had their way, however, districts across the country would not only teach sex education, but also retool it to focus on healthy relationships.
You want to lay this on thick and protect them from feeling condemnation.
We're not here to talk about why people shouldn't have sex.